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Russia, March 12, 1998

I Go to Gay Clubs Worldwide

Swining with the best of the CIS!

No matter where you are in the world, if you want the best a city's nightlife has to offer, head to the gay clubs!

I learned this maxim first in University, where my housemate, Deans, and I would go to "The Club." See right there is the beginning of the truth. They knew it would be the best place in town, way beyond the rest, so why give it any other name. Located an old Firestone tire center, it took the whole car theme to a new level, with coil spring bar seats, industrial interior, and the highlight: car lifts remade into platforms where hunk male dancers went from fully clothed to itty-bitty bikinis!

The music was always the best, and if it did get too much, there was a little chill-out room with soft music, soft lights, and very soft couches you could relax in. Deans and I would head there every Friday for the amazing Drag Race, where grown men raced around trying to be the first to convincingly dress in women's clothes. They didn't always make it past the mandatory vodka shot stations in style, but they always kept their composure.

When I moved to DC, I was actually a bit intimidated by the size of the gay scene there. I wasn't in provincial America anymore, and these grown men did not like posers. I kept to a few quasi-gay bars and clubs, shying from the ultra-homo places like Badlands. I also was a little burn out on the club scene by then, trying to steer clear of the recreational pharmaceuticals that fueled my nightlife at the time.

I didn't even know there was a gay nightlife scene in Moscow at first. Gays have always been persecuted in Russia, with Stalin deporting them to Siberia in mass. I only found out about it over time, from friends and the great writings of the eXile. That's when I first heard of Chameleon (or Xamelon as the Russians spell it).

Chameleon reminds me of the greatness I remember in The Club. It has three main rooms for the mixed crowds. One room is standard crappy Russian pop music, and is filled with you average Russians having a good time. Another room, much larger and more styling, has dancers in cages dancing to the cranking house & techno music. Late Saturday nights, they have an amazing show (a rarity in Russia!) where two men perform gymnastic feats with two ropes attached to the ceiling. Of Course, their feats are a bit erotic to, which makes it all more interesting! The last room, a "chill room" with a bar and pool table, is only interesting in that it leads to the best place in the entire club: the dungeon!

Down a winding staircase and past the bouncer who turns away all the ladies, is a bar packed full of beautiful men. There is also a room showing gay porn, a room with couches and swings, and a whole row of little rooms for private "parties." At first, I though the little rooms were toilets, with a urinal and sink in each, until I noticed the opportunistically placed holes in the wall! Enough said there.

Now, with the Chameleon experience fresh in my mind, I went south to Kyiv expecting the same amazing style. Oh was I to be disappointed! I looked in the local nightlife guide, "What's On", and read about a "unpretentious" gay club called "Big Boy." Well, with a name like that, I was expecting great things! After a long walk from a distant metro station, I came across Big Boy.

Hmm. how to explain it to someone who hasn't been to a bar in a House of Culture? Ok, imagine a long rectangular room, with tall windows reaching to the high ceilings. Perfect for plays, musicals, etc, but if you don't do any interior decorating, past shutting the blinds, there isn't much hope in the gig. Big Boy at least had a colored spotlight. One colored spotlight, but nothing else.

The music was pretty bad, I actually heard Phil Collins' "Tonight, Tonight!" A dance club playing Phil Collins?! Please! And the worst part of it all? The men! A very poor selection of Russian men were trying to dance, none with a sense of clothing style or musical rhythm.

With this to start with, how far can you really go?

I was so depressed, I wanted to leave the city that night. How could any self-respecting gay man deal with such a scene? If I were a gay man in Kyiv, I know I'd rent the apartment, dump the car, and sell the woman into slavery, just to get to Moscow!

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I just came back from a trip to the "Palace of Culture" in Kyiv mentioned above. I'll have to give it another chance on less of an off-night (Wednesday seems to be a slow night in this city), but my first impression was a bit disappointing.

The guy at the door was not friendly at all, and just sort of stood there like a concrete police-man staring at me. I couldn't see upstairs, and there was no music playing. There were lots of coat-check boxes and hangars, but no coats! It sounded like there were probably about 2 people in there watching TV.

With a $2 cover on top of the already uncomfortable situation at the door, I decided to save myself the embarrassment of an early exit and just left. Maybe on Fridays or Saturdays there are actually be people and friendly staff.

Hahahah!

Yeah, good old Soviet face control. Nuttin like a stone-faced no-neck goon guarding the door to make for a pleasant introduction. And yeah, there were probably only two guys in there watching TV.
make for a pleseant introduction.

Nice, eh? Now head to Moscow.

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